There are some people we just don’t like to be around! They aren’t necessarily our enemies. They simply have the uncanny ability to irritate us. If we had been one of Jesus’ disciples, we would probably have found it difficult to be around Peter. He was blunt and, at times, arrogant. On the other hand, we might have regarded Judas with trust and respect. The only one who saw deeply enough to discern the true character of these men was Jesus.
Warming Up to God
Has someone in your life ever hurt you deeply? How have you responded to that hurt? Tell God how you feel about what happened. Allow him to speak to your pain.Read John 13:18-38
Discovering the Word
- Jesus takes this opportunity to predict his betrayal. How would his prediction dispel any doubts the disciples might have and strengthen their faith (v. 19)?
- Evidently, the disciples did not know who would betray Jesus (v. 22). What does this tell us about how Jesus had treated Judas?
- Why does the kind of love Jesus describes convince all of humanity that we are Jesus' disciples (v. 35)?
- Do you think Peter's declaration in verse 37 comes from pride or from sincerity? Explain.
- Three people stand out in this passage—Jesus, Judas and Peter. What one character quality of each—good or evil—impresses you the most?
Applying the Word
- How would you have treated Judas if you knew he would eventually betray you?
- John later wrote: "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers" (1 Jn 3:16). In what practical ways can you exhibit this sacrificial love?
